Well thankfully I was able to revive my system without doing any of that. I was about to give up when i just decided to update the /bootmii folder inside of the sd card with the lastest version. It booted up to a black screen it looked like some code was running apparently and walla somehow that allowed my wii to get to the system menu reinstalled ios60 with wad manager. good to go. thank you eby smeer516 - FixMii
So I decided to wait awhile before updating to system menu version 4.0. Well everything went well until I updated my IOS60 to unlock security features on sd card transfers. Followed all instructions correctly, black screen at bootup. I have bootmii installed but never made a nand backup. Heres my system information: Bootmii b1.1 Sysmenu: 4.0u boot1b boot2v3 NAND FS usage: 75.3% Doby smeer516 - FixMii